Friday, January 28, 2011

Betty's Mailbag

It's a little hard to pick out individual cities in Europe and
the East Coast of North America.
When we spread out our little revolving globe (see sidebar) we can click on any of the dots and see when and where visitors stopped by TUJD. Go ahead, you can try it too! Just click the little box with four arrows pointing outward and a little circle in the middle.  That will take you to a big revolving globe...right above it and a little to the right is a 2D flat map symbol...click on that and you'll get a fairly large flat map of the world.  From there, just move your cursor over the dots to see where and how many times we've had visits from that particular place (mind you, the dots are not always accurate - so don't be upset if you don't see your hometown - the inter-web-nets are a mysterious place).
This morning I was thrilled to open up TUJD email and find a note from a new commenter:

Hi Betty’s,
I just love your blogs! They are so amusing. Never thought there were so many Betty fans in the world.
Though it has taken some time, I´ve managed to find all Betty´s books and I still read them from time to time. They are a very good read when you are a bit blue. Every time I read a book, I look for well known phrases, like mousy hair, lobster Thermidor, his weel shod feet,etc.
Have you ever tried to make a trifle? It´s delicious and very easy to eat, I can recommend it.
Greetings from Amersfoort, the Netherlands,
Cisca

We love to get mail too!
Dear Betty Cisca,
I wonder if you can understand how excited The Founding Bettys were to receive your email. A reader? From across the sea? In the Netherlands?! Where The Great Betty lived?! You just can't buy that kind of awesome.
We love Betty in just the way you do and nothing can make us feel better when we're a bit blue than dipping into our favorite reads. We hope you continue to follow the site and hope you'll leap in to our comments section when we've gotten stuck over things like Dutch name pronunciations and the possible dangers of Dam Square.
Love and lardy cakes,
The Founding Bettys
P.S. I am assuming that your first language is Dutch and that your English is particularly fabulous (dare I say, quite on par with a Rich Dutch Doctor's?). May I ask how you stumbled across The Venerable Neels?

25 comments:

  1. I've asked Betty Ross for a Dutch road atlas for my birthday. I'm going to start planning a road trip and I don't care if no one else wants to go, I'm going to The Netherlands.

    Just planning it will make me so happy.

    Only thing that would make me happier is if someone who knew The Great Betty (or her kith and/or kin) were to write in. That would be sublime.

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  2. I was thinking that the other day.. Surely some descendant of hers will google her and find us someday. :-)
    Welcome, Cisca! I'm new here myself and everyone has been very welcoming. How very exciting to find an actual person who lives in the Netherlands.
    Betty Magdalen, I would so love to go to the Netherlands with you. :-) Do you mind very much waiting until my last child is out of college though? My registered accountant says no trips abroad until then (6 kids = 20 years of college fees... WHAT were we thinking!?). Maybe you had better blaze the trail and by the time I'm ready, you will be a registered tour guide for the area!

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  3. Betty Cyndi -- I worry there aren't any descendants, although there have to be relatives of her late husband still in The Netherlands.

    Here's my fear: Betty didn't have siblings, hated her stepmum (so who cares about any children the stepmum might have had, i.e., Betty's step-siblings), and only had the one daughter, Charlotte. Charlotte might not have had children, and is likely to be well along in age herself (60?). I'm guessing she's the one who either was herself, or married, a civil engineer working in Norway, north of the Arctic Circle. She may not be monitoring the lavish praise scribbled by her mother's legion of fans. (Many of whom are American, and I have to report, sadly, that not all Americans are appropriately respectful about the privacy of the truly famous. Not to mention that Charlotte might share her mother's overall impression of Americans...)

    So, alas, I have my grave doubts. By the way, I checked -- no one in Norway has done much in the way of visiting, but someone (Betty Barbara?) in Maryland has visited the site over 1,400 times! Yowza!

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  4. Betty Barbara here--
    Well, probably not all me! I have noticed that I and Betty Margaret often have our source dots out of whack. So divide the 1,400 between the two of us and you are probably more accurate. That is just two gals in suburban Maryland--I am sure that there are more shy Betty fans here in the greater Baltimore-Washington area.

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  5. I'm sure I read that Darling Betty had a grandson! Does anyone remember this?

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  6. I thought I'd read that too! So I checked my main Betty source. Thanks & kudos to Lou and her yahoo group. There is a grandson and he went to Oxford, circa the late 90's.
    Emily Hendrickson aka Dee of Regency Romance Fame (I've got her Books!!!) was a pen pal of Mrs. Neels and visited her in her home. Her little cottage is pink! And according to this she lived about an hour from where my forefather (one I may share with our founders) lived in England before coming to America in 1640.
    It's a small, small world!

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  7. Thanks, Betty Mary! Alas, Betty Ross was long gone from Oxford by then. Not that it matters -- we're pretty sure Betty Miranda went to the same college at Oxford as Betty Ross's cousin Melinda *and* they went at the same time, only because they studied different things, they never knew each other.

    How nice to have been her penpal...

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  8. Betty Barbara, I'm from Stafford, VA, so just south of you on the other side of the DC metropolitan area. Maybe we should get together for a reading. Sorry I missed out on Betty day. Didn't know about you then. I would have been up for that. :-)

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  9. Betty Barbara here--
    Betty Cyndi--if I weren't rehabbing from knee surgery, I'd set up a date soonest.
    But really, sometime this spring, we Mid-Atlantic Bettys need to get together. We have several active Bettys in PA, there's at least two of us in the Greater Baltimore area and you can't possibly be the only northern VA Betty.
    This bears thinking about.........

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  10. When you want to start planning it, let the Great Bettys know and we'll pass your email addresses to one another. It sounds like such fun!

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  11. Better yet, Betty Kiera, fly out and join us. I have a full fledged honest to goodness guest suit and you and Betty Debbie are welcome to stay. I love company. I'll be out of town from early May to mid June, driving across country to Southern Cal for my daughter's college graduation (one down, five to go), and then up the coast to your area then across the northwest and home. So excited! I've been waiting ten years to do this. Betty Barbara, get well soon. I know it takes awhile, but my SIL had the surgery and she's really happy now that she did.

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  12. If people are willing to drive to Northeastern PA, we have room and a nice rural & historic house. Oh, and I know this sounds silly now, with snow on the ground, but we do have a swimming pool for when it gets hotter...

    But otherwise, we'll happily drive wherever everyone else is getting together.

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  13. Ok - I'm a semi-invalid and I do not drive. BUT...our son lives in the Baltimore area (Odenton) and we visit often. (The almost 2 year old's b'day is in March so we'll be there then) I can certainly manipulate the calendar to be in the greater Baltimore area when necessary.

    And I live just off US 15N, so anyone driving through wouldn't have too much trouble stopping my way to carry me along! :)

    IOW, I'm there, gals!

    me<><

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  14. Oh Gee, I'm way up here in Michigan. Well, it's southern MI, my county touches Ohio and Indiana. Any Betty's near me?
    With warning I could possibly drive easterly this summer, as I'll be off work for the summer.
    So, keep me in the loop if you really do this thing!

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  15. Look, I don't want to throw another log on the fire or anything, but The Founding Bettys are kicking around the idea of visiting Betty Magdalen this year sometime...

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  16. *barely suppressed screams of {potential} joy*

    That would be very nice...

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  17. I can tell you, Betty Mary, that Midland, MI is a scant 8 hour drive. I have ridden it several times. (My best friend lives there.)

    For that matter, depending on what happens with his job, my husband and I may take a trip to Midland this year.

    And, "barely suppressed screams of {potential} joy" resounding all over PA!

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  18. Betty Barbara here--
    Well, if the Founding Bettys are coming East--Then Something Must Be Done!

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  19. Oh, and I should point out that while I may not have the space to put anyone up, I do have a lovely wrap-around porch and 2 acres of lawn that becomes our main living area as soon as it gets anywhere near 70F.

    It is wonderful for entertaining - the first Event was the 2nd (of THREE) wedding receptions for our son and his wife 2 years ago (for which occasion we set about Getting It All Finished) and last Easter we had our annual family (and friends) egg hunt here - it's going to be held here indefinitely now.

    So I'd be perfectly (happily!) willing to haul out my collection of tea pots and varieties of tea and host a tea pahty on the verahndah, dahlings! I'd even get one or two new cake plates to fill (that collection is newer and smaller) with all sorts of Suitable Comestibles.

    me<><

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  20. I have a work conference in early July in PA just north of Philadelphia... so I've got to head that way anyway. I'll go look up the date... (look look look...) July 8-11. So.. if we could work something right after that, I'd already be nearby.. July is a nice time to go NORTH of DC. I can swing through the Baltimore area and pick up Betty Barbara too. :-) This could be a boatload of fun.
    :-) Smiles like a RDD.

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  21. Betty Cyndi, before you get too excited about early July, I'll just mention that I'll be knee deep in hot dog buns and marshmallows for most of July...I'm the 'camp cook' for 160 people the week of the 19th.

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  22. But, Cyndi -- no reason not to come for a Betty-themed visit then anyway.

    The person we really need at this point is Betty JoDee. Can't plan anything in NE Pennsylvania without consulting her!

    :-)

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  23. I'm back, I'm back. Been swamped and in self-imposed noTUJD exile for a week. Trying to catch up on all the posts. Count me in on whatever is cooking (I'll arrange to run out on the prof and four Brighton bugs to come wherever). Now I gotta go peruse the A Star Looks Down reviews and comments--perhaps the most frustrating book in The Canon.

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  24. "Pouty face." Our big trip to DC last year will most like preclude any trip east this year. But, it there is a gathering in the west, I live in southeast Washington state, and will happily travel given time to arrange it!

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